These past months of moving through grief have led me through paths I didn’t envisage. It has reminded me that navigating grief is never a neat or linear experience. It’s been one of fighting to stay whole, seeking meaning, and being saved by community, only to almost lose myself and break my pact to grieve in a ‘healthy’ way. I …
MUSIC REVIEW – MY TOP ALBUMS OF 2023
2023 was a year for Afrobeats. The genre brought more excitement to the music scene and consolidated its worldwide impact, while mainstream acts sort of did their usual stuff. If I were to judge, I’d say 2023 was an average year in music that was carried by strong albums released towards the end of 2022. After outstanding EP releases, Sam …
NOW THE ‘STORM’ IS OVER
After yet another grueling three months, I once again got to shut down my laptop, signaling the end of yet another semester. This semester broke me. Right from resumption there was a disconnect I felt towards my studies (I still can’t place it), unlike the first semester I was wholeheartedly excited about. Something didn’t feel right with some of the …
THE PAST THREE MONTHS (Surviving Graduate School)
‘Life is not what I thought it wasTwenty-four hours agoStill I’m singing ‘Spirit,Take me up in arms with You’And I’m not who I thought I wasTwenty-four hours ago’ – Twenty four (Switchfoot) Someone recently asked if I don’t write anymore, and my response was I have been busy writing academic papers for the past three months.It always felt morally wrong …
LESSONS IN FINANCE 2 (Healing)
Continuing from the previous post. Life gives you lessons… “Learning is a messy process and it hurts.” Though I know there isn’t likely any successful investor today who hasn’t lost money (it’s part of the learning process), but I can’t help thinking if I had continued in the line of sustainable safe investments though, with low/moderate returns, I probably wouldn’t …
LESSONS IN FINANCE (The Breaking)
“Isn’t it strange?The way things can changeThe life that you leadTurned on its head”- Ache (James Carrington) Life has a way of humbling us… It’s weird how things change; from feeling empowered, secured, and being on the right track to feeling helpless and vulnerable. I was proud of myself, I felt pleased with how much I had achieved over the …
OCTOBER TO REMEMBER
Isn’t it strange how suddenly things can change? What started as a peaceful protest turned on its head after being hijacked by our very own Government and its sponsored thugs. Overnight the feeling of togetherness and hope young Nigerians relished for two weeks turned into sorrow and despair. Tuesday, October 20, 2020 (now commonly referred to as Dark Tuesday or …
SOMETHING ON FINANCE
Several persons have in the past asked me for tips on how to save, so I thought I’ll make a post on it. I may not be a financial guru or investment banker, but I think I know one or two things about saving. Things I learnt on my own or from others or from reading online posts on personal …
FOR HER…
In life, there are joys, there are pains And everything in-between There are times when everything seems to fall in place And times when nothing adds up Confused, miserable, down and torn I gaze into the haze My heart wrings No one knows unerringly just how I feel Alone in this world Forced to endure it all I try to …






